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Line Defiance
The Defiant Child - Who Is Going To Win The Next Battle?
Often a defiant child is expressing his frustrations and wants and needs in the only way he knows, which is not a very attractive way for the poor parents. Perhaps by using a defiant attitude, the child feels more secure in his insecurity. If the defiance gets a reaction from the parents or if they give in, then the defiant child will continue to use defiance more and more as he sees it as a manipulative tool which will come in very handy.
If you can get under the radar of his or her defiance and establish an element of trust, then that is a great way to deal with defiant kids. This is one of the techniques that can be learned when you take a behavior therapy program. But how do you deal with verbal abuse and other forms of defiance? There may be a refusal to do homework or keep to a curfew. Drawing up a homework contract with the teenager can often help and the problem teen will enjoy putting in some cool clauses while the parent can insert their own pet hates as well.
Parents react in different ways to bad behavior. There can be threats, punishments, withdrawal of privileges. There may be constant tensions as battles are fought and parents often end up defeated and frustrated and start to blame themselves. It is interesting to note that parents themselves have different ideas of how to cope with the problem of an unruly and defiant child. When the child discovers that different yardsticks are being applied, then he will exploit the situation to his advantage. Good cop, bad cop parenting can create more problems than it solves.
As the soldiers line up for the next battle in the great power struggle, parents often wonder how they are going to win the war, if ever. This is where help in the form of behavior modification is so valuable. Nobody taught us how to be parents although we generally follow the pattern that we were brought up on although that is usually a bad idea. Old habits die hard but I know parents who have followed these courses and have learned how to deal effectively with a defiant child and turned round their family life in no time at all.
About the Author
Want to learn how I got back my happy family ? Discover a whole new world in a behavior modification course .
Robert Locke is a Health enthusiast who specializes in Children's Health. He has written extensively on ADHD and Behavior Therapy.
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